UGHHH why can’t guys understand that being nice to them doesn’t mean that you’re into them? like even some of the nicest, least douchey and least flirty guys will just assume that because you talk to them or smile at them or whatever that you’re interested. I act the same way around them that I do around my girl friends, just being friendly and easy-going and stuff, and yet WHYYY does that so often seem to indicate more to them than there actually is?! it’s just so frustrating! like I just wanna be nice to people. is that so bad? do I have to be mean so that no one will think I’m into them? make it stop please.